tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7426369653620023276.post4112319368842854036..comments2023-09-21T04:25:08.146-05:00Comments on Our Journey to Bailey & Beyond: Let's Just Avoid ItDanaehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10584568430169543869noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7426369653620023276.post-77302436567481116332010-07-15T16:12:45.435-05:002010-07-15T16:12:45.435-05:00My own mother-in-law has offended me a number of t...My own mother-in-law has offended me a number of times in her ignorance of how to be toward me in regards to Kenny. I know it's a generational thing (she's 73) and a "country" thing. She just doesn't get it. I know she doesn't mean to hurt me, but sometimes that's hard to remember.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13450929181331922606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7426369653620023276.post-69590517170044478632010-07-05T09:24:51.559-05:002010-07-05T09:24:51.559-05:00I am sorry that even your family is having a hard ...I am sorry that even your family is having a hard time when you talk about Bailey. I have endured some awkard silences from friends when I mention Caleb and Lucas. I agree with feeling hurt and annoyed. And you have enough pain you are dealing with that you shouldn't have to add these on to it.<br />I also love how Elaine remembered Bailey on her trip. And they should appreciate that also.BuzimommiEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07639877937550688176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7426369653620023276.post-68758494578550660722010-07-05T08:18:33.647-05:002010-07-05T08:18:33.647-05:00I'm so glad you liked the photo. I am always ...I'm so glad you liked the photo. I am always thinking of my fellow baby momma's and their little ones. I know exactly how you feel. Some people I know have not once mentioned my son to me, like he just never existed to them. That hurts so much because he is such a huge part of my very being. I would not be who I am today without him so to have people ignore that is like a slap in the face. Unfortunately people just don't get it. But your online friends are here to listen to you talk about Bailey and to celebrate her! She is such a beautiful little girl, she will not be forgotten.Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08091097457612359686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7426369653620023276.post-7350161444698075472010-07-05T00:28:33.911-05:002010-07-05T00:28:33.911-05:00Hurt and annoyed are totally legitimate reactions ...Hurt and annoyed are totally legitimate reactions to have. Along with some other feelings too...<br /><br />I'm sorry you have family members who don't want to talk about Bailey. It's easy enough for them to think that by not talking about her the pain will disappear. You and I and other baby-loss moms know differently.<br /><br />It really is sweet that Elaine was remembering your little girl on her trip. That picture must have really lifted your spirits!<br /><br />I see Bailey's picture on the side of your blog - and I often think about how cute and sweet she is. I'm glad you have that picture up!Violet1122https://www.blogger.com/profile/05470143683967710014noreply@blogger.com